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The 2:1:1 rule is a guideline for how much you should spend on an engagement ring relative to your monthly salary. It suggests spending two months' salary on the ring, one month's on the wedding band, and one month's on the wedding itself.
This rule of thumb helps couples set a budget for their big day. It suggests allocating two months of your combined pre-tax income to the engagement ring, one month to the wedding bands, and one month to the overall wedding expenses. It is a starting point, not a strict law. Your own financial situation and priorities should always come first. Many couples find it useful for planning, while others prefer to set a total budget and divide it as they see fit. The goal is to avoid debt and buy something you love and can comfortably afford.
- Adjust the rule to fit your real income and savings.
- Consider the cost of living in your area.
- Prioritise what matters most to you as a couple.
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