Can wedding rings be any ring?

The tradition of a plain gold band is just that, a tradition. Many couples now choose rings in different metals, with stones, or with engraved messages. You can pick a ring that matches your engagement ring, or one that does not. Some people wear their wedding ring on the right hand, others on the left, and some switch between them.

Think about your lifestyle first. If you work with your hands, a softer metal like gold may scratch or bend, while titanium or tungsten are harder and more durable. If you have allergies, check the metal content. If you want to stack your wedding ring with an engagement ring, make sure the shapes work together and the stones do not catch on each other.

You can also choose a ring that is not a traditional band at all, such as a shaped ring, a ring with a gemstone, or even a ring that you already own. The only real requirement is that you both feel happy wearing it every day. There is no law about what a wedding ring must look like, so let your taste and comfort guide you.