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What do groom's parents typically pay for?

Answered by the UK Wedding Websites editorial team · Updated 2026-10-12 · For parents

Short answer

Traditionally, the groom's parents pay for the rehearsal dinner, the groom's outfit, the honeymoon, and sometimes the drinks at the wedding. But this is just a custom, not a rule. Many couples now split costs differently, so talk openly about what feels fair for your family.

In the past, the groom's parents covered the rehearsal dinner, the groom's attire, the honeymoon, and often the bar tab or drinks during the reception. They might also help with the cost of the wedding cars or the groom's side of the wedding party's outfits, like the best man's suit hire. However, these traditions are fading. Many families now share costs based on what they can afford, or the couple pays for everything themselves. The most important thing is to have a clear, kind conversation early on. Ask both sets of parents what they would like to contribute, rather than assuming. Write down what everyone agrees to, so there are no surprises later. Remember, no one is obliged to pay for anything. If the groom's parents offer money, accept it graciously, and if they cannot, that is completely fine. What matters is that everyone feels comfortable and included. You can also suggest they contribute in non-financial ways, like helping with the venue visit or organising the transport, if that suits them better.

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