Is it rude to send wedding invitations early?

Sending invitations early is generally seen as thoughtful, not rude. The key is to give guests a clear reply date that is not too far away. If you send invitations 4 or 5 months ahead, guests may not yet know their plans, but they will appreciate having the date in the diary. You can ask for replies closer to the wedding, for example 6 weeks before, so guests have time to confirm.

There is a difference between save the dates and invitations. Save the dates are for giving plenty of notice, usually 6 to 12 months ahead. Invitations carry the full details and the reply card. If you send invitations very early, make sure your venue, timings and suppliers are confirmed, so you do not have to send corrections later.

Some couples worry that early invitations put pressure on guests. In practice, most guests are pleased to have the date and details early, especially if they need to book accommodation or arrange time off. If you are unsure, send save the dates first and then invitations at the usual 6 to 8 week mark.