What is the best save the date wording for a casual or funny wedding?

Short answer

Keep it light and personal. Try something like: "Save the date! We're finally doing it. Join us for food, drinks and dancing on [date]. Formal invites to follow, but you know us, so expect a few surprises."

For a casual or funny save the date, the key is to sound like yourselves, not like a formal announcement. Start with a simple, warm line that gets straight to the point, such as "We're getting married and we want you there!" or "Save the date for our big (but not too big) day." Then add a playful detail that reflects your relationship, like a shared joke, a favourite hobby, or a funny story about how you met. You can say something like "No black tie, just your best dancing shoes" or "Kids welcome, tantrums optional." Keep the wording short and punchy. A couple of lines is plenty. You can include the date and location, and mention that a proper invitation will follow. Avoid anything too long or complicated. The aim is to make people smile and feel included, not to explain the whole wedding. If you are having a civil ceremony, remember that the legal wording on the actual schedule is fixed, but your save the date is totally free. So have fun with it, and let your personality shine through.