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How do you word an RSVP card for a bridal shower?

Answered by the UK Wedding Websites editorial team · Updated 2026-10-12 · For the bridal party · For brides

Short answer

Use a classic, celebratory tone: 'Kindly reply by [date] so we can finalise the venue and catering. We look forward to celebrating with you.' Include a line for dietary needs and a gift list hint if appropriate.

A bridal shower RSVP card is usually hosted by the bridal party or a close friend, so the wording should be gracious and clear. Start with 'Please reply by [date]' or 'Kindly respond by [date]'. Then include a simple acceptance line like 'Joyfully accepts' and a decline line like 'Regretfully declines'. Add a space for the guest's name and for the number of guests if you are allowing a plus one. Since showers often involve food, ask about dietary requirements or allergies with a line like 'Please note any dietary needs below'. If there is a gift list, you can mention it subtly, for example 'Your presence is the only gift needed, but if you wish, a registry is available on request.' Avoid being pushy. If the shower is a surprise, make sure the RSVP card does not spoil it, so keep the wording generic like 'A celebration for [name]' rather than naming the event. Also include the host's contact details or a reply website. Give guests at least three weeks to respond, and follow up gently with those who forget. Keep the tone warm and excited, as the shower is a joyful occasion.

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