How long is a typical father of the bride speech?

Aim for about five to ten minutes. This gives you room to welcome everyone, share a couple of memories and offer your wishes, without losing the room. Most guests will appreciate a speech that is heartfelt but does not drag on.

If you are unsure, plan for five minutes and add more only if you have a strong story to tell. You can always cut material later, but you cannot easily add it back once the moment has passed.

Consider the day's schedule when deciding length. If there are many speeches in a row, keep yours on the shorter side so the evening does not stall. If the speeches are spread out, you have a little more latitude.

Practical points to include:

• A warm welcome to all guests
• A short story about your daughter
• Kind words about your new son or daughter in law
• A toast to the couple

Remember that quality matters more than length. A short speech said with feeling is always better than a long one filled with filler.