How do you decide who gets a plus-one at your wedding?

Start by agreeing on a simple policy with your partner before you send any invites. A common approach is to give a plus-one to anyone in a serious relationship, to members of the wedding party, and to guests who will not know many other attendees.

Apply the same rule to every household. If you offer a partner to one single friend, offer it to all single friends, or to none. Inconsistent rules can feel like a rejection and may cause family rows.

Think about the practical side too. A full table plan is easier when you know exactly who is coming. If you have a smaller venue or a tight budget, it is kinder to say no to everyone than to pick and choose.

Be clear on your invitation so there is no guesswork. If a guest is invited as an individual, their name alone will appear on the envelope. If they have a guest, write 'and guest' on the line.

If you are unsure about how your venue counts guests or how your budget works, check the details with them early.