How do I say +1 on a wedding invite?

The clearest way to offer a plus-one is to address the envelope to your friend by name plus 'and guest'. On the inner invitation card, do the same. This removes any guesswork for your guest and for you when you count heads.

If you are unsure who they will bring, 'and guest' is the polite phrase. Avoid writing '+1' on paper invites. It looks casual and can feel like an afterthought. Guests may also worry about whether a partner is welcome or whether children are invited too.

A few things to keep in mind:

• Match the wording on the envelope and the inner card so there is no confusion.
• Do not put 'and guest' on a card addressed only to the person you know if you intend to name their partner.
• Keep your seating plan flexible. If you do not know the name, seat your guest with friends or family who are likely to be friendly.
• If you are unsure about religious or cultural expectations around guests, ask your venue or place of worship. Rules can vary, so check with them or GOV.UK if you need official guidance.

Being clear now saves awkward messages later.