What are good jobs for children to do at a wedding?

Children often feel proud when they have a real part to play. Choose a job that fits their age and confidence level. A short task with a clear end point works better than a long one.

For younger children, scattering petals down the aisle or handing out small favours is gentle and meaningful. Older children can carry the rings, hold the vows, or read a short poem or blessing. Some couples let them help with a unity ritual, like pouring sand or lighting a candle.

Practice the role a few times before the day. Explain exactly where to stand and what to say. Rehearse with the couple so the child feels secure. Keep the script very short, or let them speak from a card.

Make sure an adult is nearby to guide them. After the task, tell them where to sit and who will look after them. Thank them publicly during the speeches so they feel valued. If a child becomes shy or tired on the day, allow them to step back without fuss.