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Give children their own small activities, a quiet corner and gentle tasks so they stay entertained without disrupting the day. A few well chosen options work better than trying to please every age.
Think about the ages you are inviting. A toddler needs something soft and safe, while an older child wants a challenge or a creative task. Plan a mix so there is always something on offer.
Set up a quiet corner away from the music and flashing lights. Fill it with cushions, colouring books, crayons and simple puzzles. This gives tired children a place to recharge without you having to chase them.
- A scavenger hunt using items found around the venue keeps older children moving and talking.
- A craft table with stickers, badges and name tags lets them make something to take home.
- A small box of bubbles or chalk for the garden gives instant fun.
You can also give children a gentle role. A junior usher can hand out order of service booklets, or a flower child can scatter petals before the ceremony. Children often feel proud when they help and settle more easily once they have a job.
Make sure any activities finish before speeches or the first dance, when noise levels rise. Let parents know where the quiet corner is, so they can step away if needed. Keeping things simple and low pressure usually works best.
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