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Give toddlers a quiet activity bag and seat them near a trusted adult. Simple toys and a familiar comfort item help them stay calm while you say your vows.
Toddlers have short attention spans, so plan for them to be fidgety. Seat them with a parent or grandparent who knows their routine, ideally near the back or in an aisle seat. This makes it easier to slip out quietly if needed. Provide a small bag with quiet, non-messy toys such as soft books, stickers, crayons and paper, and a familiar comfort object like a small teddy or blanket. Avoid noisy or electronic toys that might distract other guests.
If your venue allows, ask a trusted friend or family member to sit with the children during the ceremony. Some couples arrange for a separate room nearby where a childminder can keep an eye on little ones. If you do not have this, let the parents know in advance so they can plan. A short break during the ceremony, if your service allows, can also give children a chance to move around.
Remember that weddings are family events and most people are understanding. The key is preparation rather than perfection.
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