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There is no fixed rule about whose name goes first on wedding favours. Most couples choose to put the names in the order they prefer, often the same order used on the invitations. You can also use just your first names or your initials.
When it comes to wedding favours, you have complete freedom over the order of names. Many couples follow the same order they used on their wedding invitations, which is often the order they have used throughout their relationship. Some put the name of the person whose family is hosting first, if that matters to them, but this is not a requirement. Others prefer alphabetical order, or simply put the name that sounds better first. You could also avoid the issue entirely by using just your first names, your initials, or a shared monogram. If you have different surnames, you might choose to use both, or just one if you are changing your name after the wedding. The most important thing is consistency, so use the same order on favours, place cards, and other stationery to avoid confusion. There is no legal or traditional rule that dictates this, so go with what feels right for you as a couple. If you are unsure, ask your wedding planner or look at examples from friends or online inspiration.
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