What is the langar after a Sikh wedding and do guests have to attend?

The langar is a sacred community meal served in the gurdwara or at the wedding venue after the ceremony. It is prepared and served by volunteers and is offered free to all who attend. Everyone sits together on the floor in a shared space, which reflects the Sikh values of equality and humility. Men and women sit in separate sections in many gurdwaras, but this can vary by congregation.

Guests are always welcome at the langar and are encouraged to share the meal, but attendance is not compulsory. If you have dietary needs, allergies or mobility concerns, let the family know beforehand. The food is usually vegetarian, and many gurdwaras avoid onion and garlic, but this depends on the local community.

If you prefer not to eat there, it is perfectly acceptable to excuse yourself politely. You might say you have an early commitment or simply thank the hosts for the warm welcome. The most important thing is to respect the space and the people serving.

Tip: Arrive a little early to the langar area so you can find a seat and settle in without rushing.