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Same-sex couples follow the same notice rules as opposite-sex couples. You give notice in person at your local register office at least 28 days before the ceremony.
The law treats same-sex and opposite-sex couples the same when it comes to giving notice of marriage in England and Wales. Both of you must give notice in person at your local register office. This is usually the office for the area where you have lived for at least the last seven days.
You must give notice at least 28 full days before your ceremony. This gives the office time to check your details and display the notice. If either of you is subject to immigration control, the process takes longer, so plan well ahead. Your notice is valid for 12 months, which means your wedding must take place within that time.
Scotland and Northern Ireland have their own rules. In Scotland, you submit a marriage notice to the registrar for the district where the wedding will happen, at least 29 days before the wedding. In Northern Ireland, notice is given to the registrar in the district where the wedding takes place, at least 28 days before.
Because these rules differ by nation, always confirm the exact requirements with your local register office or check GOV.UK before you book anything.
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