What is the wedding seating etiquette for a mixed-faith ceremony?

The usual rule is to place immediate family and close relatives at the front, with the rest of the guests behind. For a mixed-faith wedding, avoid splitting seats by religion. Instead, seat each family as a unit so grandparents, parents and siblings stay together.

If one side has a larger extended family, balance the room by placing them on opposite sides or alternating sections. Let your ushers know exactly where each group should sit. A simple seating plan or a table map at the entrance stops confusion and stops anyone feeling unsure.

For the reception, think about who will sit together. Couples, friends and colleagues usually sit together, while family tables keep older relatives near the head table. If some guests have dietary or prayer needs, seat them near an exit or with someone who can help.

• Mark reserved rows clearly so elders get the best seats.
• Give ushers a printed seating chart with family names.
• Place guests with shared interests together even if they are from different sides.