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The bride and groom stand under the chuppah, the wedding canopy. They may be joined by their parents or the officiating rabbi depending on the custom.
The chuppah is a canopy held up by four poles and a cloth. It represents the new home the couple will build together. In most traditions, only the bride and groom stand beneath it during the ceremony. Some communities invite both sets of parents to join them under the canopy, especially during the blessing. Others keep the parents standing at the sides or in the seating area.
The officiating rabbi usually stands nearby rather than under the chuppah itself. Two witnesses may stand close by to observe the exchange of vows. The exact arrangement often depends on your synagogue, your rabbi and your family wishes. There is no single rule that every community follows.
If you are planning a UK wedding, remember the chuppah is a religious symbol. It does not satisfy the legal requirements for marriage. You will still need to complete the civil registration through a register office or approved venue. Talk to your rabbi about who you would like under the canopy and confirm the legal steps with GOV.UK or your local register office.
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