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You cannot have a Jewish wedding on certain days, such as Shabbat, major holidays and the Omer period. The exact dates change each year, so check with your rabbi.
Jewish weddings are not held on Shabbat, from Friday evening to Saturday evening. They are also avoided on major holidays like Passover, Shavuot, Rosh Hashanah, Yom Kippur and Sukkot. These dates follow the lunar calendar and shift each year.
Many couples also avoid the Omer period, the weeks between Passover and Shavuot, as a time of mourning. Some communities observe this fully, while others only avoid it for part of the period. Your rabbi will explain what your community follows.
In 2026, the specific dates will depend on when the holidays fall. You should confirm the exact days with your rabbi or synagogue. They can give you a list of suitable dates.
If you are planning ahead, pick a few possible dates first. Then check them against the Jewish calendar. This avoids booking a venue for a day you cannot use.
Remember that these rules can vary by tradition. Always confirm with your place of worship.
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