What is the tradition of the bride walking around the groom seven times and is it still done?

In traditional Ashkenazi weddings, the bride circles the groom seven times before the ceremony. This act is often understood as creating a protective circle for your new home together. The number seven can also echo the seven days of creation or the seven blessings.

Today, many couples choose to adapt this tradition. Some brides circle the groom and then the groom circles the bride. Others have both partners walk around each other together, or skip the circling entirely in favour of something that feels more equal.

If you are having a civil ceremony in England and Wales, be aware that religious rituals are not permitted. You could still include a symbolic circling during a separate celebration or reception. In Scotland and Northern Ireland, humanist celebrants may allow meaningful rituals within the legal service.

Speak with your rabbi, cantor or celebrant about what your community expects and what you both want. The most important thing is that the moment feels right for you, not that it follows every custom exactly.