How do you get married abroad with kids?

Short answer

You can get married abroad with kids, but the legal steps are the same as for any couple. Check the local rules in the country you choose, and make sure your children have their own passports and any parental consent documents if needed.

Getting married abroad with children is very possible, and many couples do it. The legal requirements for the marriage itself do not change because you have kids. You still need to follow the rules of the country where the wedding takes place, and you should check whether your marriage will be recognised in the UK. Marriages that are legal in that country are usually recognised here, but it is wise to confirm with the local authorities and the GOV.UK page for that country.

For your children, practical planning matters most. Make sure they have valid passports and any visas required for the country you are visiting. If only one parent is travelling with the children, you may need written consent from the other parent, especially if you are travelling abroad. Check with the embassy or consulate of the country you are visiting for their specific requirements.

Think about their comfort on the day. Arrange for a trusted adult to look after them during the ceremony, or include them in the ceremony if you wish. Bring snacks, quiet toys and familiar comforts. If your children are old enough, talk to them about what will happen so they feel included and calm.