What's the most expensive part of a wedding?

For many couples, hiring the venue and paying for meals and drinks is the largest part of the budget. This is because it covers the room, staff, tables, chairs and food for everyone. A larger guest list will increase this cost quickly.

Photography and video can also take up a large share. You may want several hours of coverage, prints or an album, and experienced photographers often charge more. Entertainment such as a band or DJ is another big item, especially if you want music for most of the evening.

Other costs that add up include the dress or suit, flowers, decorations, stationery and travel. If you choose a religious ceremony, there may be fees for the building or the officiant.

The best way to keep costs down is to decide what matters most to you and spend there. Cut back on things that do not add to your day. A short list of priorities will help you share the budget fairly.