What should you put on a wedding website for the 'no photos' request?

Short answer

Put a clear, kind request on your wedding website, ideally on the homepage and the schedule page. Explain why, and suggest an alternative, like sharing photos after the wedding. Keep it positive and personal, so guests feel included rather than scolded.

Start with a warm, direct sentence that makes the request feel like a favour, not a rule. For example: "We'd love you to be fully present with us, so we're asking for an unplugged ceremony." Then explain the reason, whether that's to let the photographer work without distraction, to keep the moment intimate, or to avoid screens in photos. Add what guests should do instead, such as enjoying the moment, and reassure them that the professional photos will be shared afterwards. If you're happy for guests to take photos at the reception but not during the ceremony, say that clearly. Put the request in two places: on your homepage and on the schedule or itinerary page, so it's seen close to the event. Use a gentle tone, and avoid words like "strictly" or "forbidden". You could also add a line like "We'll share a gallery link after the wedding" to give guests something to look forward to. If you have a hashtag for social media, you can invite guests to use it for reception photos only. Remember, some guests may not see the website, so also mention the request in your order of service or have your ushers or celebrant mention it on the day.