How do I find a wedding website if the couple has a custom domain?

Short answer

Check the couple's save-the-date card, invitation, or wedding stationery for the web address. If you have lost it, ask a member of the wedding party or a close family member for the link.

The most reliable way to find a wedding website with a custom domain is to look at the stationery you have already received. The web address is usually printed on the save-the-date card, the invitation, or a separate details card. It often looks like a simple name followed by a common domain ending, so it is easy to spot.

If you cannot find the card, or you have thrown it away, ask someone close to the couple. The best people to ask are the bridesmaids, ushers, best man, maid of honour, or the couple's parents. They will almost certainly have the address saved, or they can contact the couple directly for you.

You could also try a quick search online using the couple's names and the word "wedding". Many couples make their website public so search engines can find it. However, some couples keep their site private for security, so you may need the exact link or a password.

If the couple uses a wedding website service, they may have sent a direct link by email or text. Check your inbox and message history for anything with "RSVP" or "wedding website" in the subject line. If you still cannot find it, do not worry. You can always contact the couple themselves. They will be happy to share the link with you.