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Platinum is the better choice for a men's wedding band because it is far more durable and does not wear away over time. Silver is softer and will scratch and lose shape much faster with daily wear.
For a man's everyday ring, durability matters most. Platinum is a dense, strong metal that holds up well to the knocks of daily life. It develops a soft patina over the years rather than wearing down, so the band keeps its shape and size for decades. Silver is a lovely metal with a bright shine, but it is much softer. A silver band will scratch, bend and lose metal with regular use. You may find you need to resize or replace it sooner than you expect.
Think about how active your husband or son is. If he works with his hands or plays sports, platinum or a hard-wearing gold alloy will serve him better. Silver can look beautiful for a ceremony or a special occasion, but it is less practical as a 24/7 band. Both metals can be engraved and shaped to fit, so style is not the deciding factor here. Choose the metal that will stay on his finger without needing frequent repairs.
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