Do engagement and wedding rings have to match?

There is no rule, law or tradition in the UK that says your engagement ring and wedding ring must look the same. This is entirely your choice, and many couples pick rings that complement each other while others prefer rings that express two different sides of their story.

Some people like a matching set because it looks harmonious and can be more comfortable to wear together. Others prefer an engagement ring with a distinctive setting and a plain wedding band that sits beside it. Both choices are equally valid.

Think about how you will wear them every day. A very tall engagement ring may not sit well next to a wide band, so try them together before you buy. If you plan to have them soldered, a jeweller can check the fit and comfort.

You might also consider:

• Wearing just the wedding ring on special occasions
• Having the rings resized or reshaped later
• Choosing metals that wear well together

If you are unsure, ask a jeweller for advice on how the rings will look and feel on your finger.