How long should an engagement last before marriage?

Short answer

There is no set rule. Most engagements in the UK last between 12 and 18 months, but the right length depends on your plans, budget and venue availability. Give yourself enough time to plan without rushing.

The length of an engagement is entirely personal. Some couples marry within a few months, while others wait several years. What matters most is that you both feel ready and have time to plan the wedding you want.

A typical UK engagement lasts 12 to 18 months. This gives you time to book a venue, which can be booked a year or more ahead, especially for popular dates. It also allows you to spread costs and avoid last-minute stress. If you are planning a larger wedding or a summer Saturday, you may need longer. If you want something small and simple, a shorter engagement can work well.

Think about your own circumstances. Work, family, finances and any cultural or religious expectations all play a part. Talk honestly with your partner about what feels right. You do not need to follow anyone else's timeline.

Remember that notice of marriage must be given at least 28 days before the ceremony in England, Wales and Northern Ireland, and 29 days in Scotland. Your notice is valid for 12 months, so plan your ceremony date within that window. If you are unsure about legal steps, check with your local register office.