How do you address wedding invitations to a widow or widower?

When you address an invitation to a widow or widower, use their own name, not their late spouse's. For a widow, write Mrs Jane Smith. For a widower, write Mr John Smith. If they have a professional title, such as Dr or Professor, use that instead. The outer envelope can include both names if they are hosting together with someone else, but for the person themselves, their own name is correct. Some widows prefer to keep using their married name, which is fine. Some may use Ms instead of Mrs, so if you know their preference, follow it. If you are unsure, you can ask a close friend or family member. The same rule applies to the inner envelope, if you use one. Write their full name and title clearly. Avoid adding 'and late husband' or 'and late wife' on the envelope. That detail belongs in the ceremony or a personal note if needed. The invitation itself should be addressed to the person as they are now, not as they were. This is a small but kind way to honour their life and choices. If the widow or widower is also a parent, include their children's names on a separate line if the children are invited. Otherwise, just their own name is enough.