How much does a hen do typically cost?

Short answer

A hen do costs whatever you and the group decide to spend. There is no fixed amount, and costs vary hugely depending on the destination, activities, accommodation and how many nights you plan. Agree a budget together early.

The cost of a hen do depends entirely on the choices the group makes together. A single afternoon activity near home will cost far less than a weekend abroad with flights, hotel rooms, meals and organised events. The most important thing is to talk openly about money before anyone books anything.

Start by asking everyone what they can comfortably afford. Some guests may need to skip the main event but join for one evening. Others may want to stay for the whole weekend. Make sure no one feels pressured to spend more than they can manage.

When you plan, think about the big costs first: travel, accommodation and any paid activities. Then add meals, drinks and small extras like decorations or matching outfits. A common approach is for the group to split the cost of the bride's share, but that is a choice for you to make, not a rule.

If you are organising the hen do, collect deposits early and keep a simple spreadsheet of who has paid. Choose activities that suit the whole group, not just the loudest voice. And remember, the best hen dos are about spending time together, not about how much you spend.