How do I word a wedding sign for gifts?

Start by thanking your guests for coming, then make the request gentle and optional. A classic wording is: 'We are so happy to celebrate with you. Your presence is the only gift we need. If you would like to give something extra, a contribution towards our first home together would mean the world to us.' If you prefer a gift list, say: 'We have registered a small gift list with the venue, but please don't feel obliged.' For a charity request, write: 'In lieu of gifts, we would be honoured if you made a donation to [charity name].' Keep the tone light and avoid any sense of pressure. Use a clear, readable font on a board or card near the gift table. If you have a card box, add a small sign saying 'Cards' so guests know where to place them. Remember that some guests may still bring physical gifts, so have a discreet area for those too. You can also add a line about not needing wrapping paper, to reduce waste: 'Please no wrapping paper, we want to keep things simple.' The key is to sound grateful, not demanding, and to give guests a clear choice.