What is the difference between a Jewish engagement and a wedding in terms of traditions?

The engagement, or shidduchin, marks the couple's decision to marry. Families often share this news with friends and close relatives. You might have an engagement party, exchange gifts or agree on a wedding date. These moments build excitement and bring both families together.

The wedding is a distinct religious and legal event. It begins with the ketubah, a marriage contract signed before the ceremony. The couple then stands under the chuppah, a canopy that represents their future home. Vows are exchanged, and the groom traditionally places a ring on the bride's finger. A blessing is said, and the marriage is sealed with the breaking of a glass.

In the UK, the wedding must also meet civil requirements. You may need to give notice at your local register office and complete any legal paperwork separately from the religious ceremony. Some couples combine both, while others hold a civil ceremony first. Check with your rabbi and the register office to plan correctly.

Traditions vary between communities, so ask your place of worship how your family should observe them.