What are some good readings to have at a wedding?

The best reading is one that sounds like you, not one chosen because it is popular. Start by thinking about the tone you want. Do you want guests laughing, or sitting quietly? A reading sets that mood.

For a civil ceremony in England and Wales, the reading must be non-religious. Poems, song lyrics and passages from novels all work. Many couples choose something about friendship, ordinary life or growing old together, because those themes fit a marriage better than grand declarations.

For a religious ceremony, your place of worship will guide you. Passages from your faith's texts are usual, and the person leading the service can suggest ones that suit the day. Rules vary between buildings and traditions, so check with them.

A few practical points:

• Keep it to a minute or two when read aloud.
• Choose something with short sentences and no tricky names.
• Read it out loud yourself before you commit.
• Ask the reader if they are happy with it before you print it.

If nothing fits, a friend can write something short, or you can use a letter one of you wrote to the other.