Who usually does a reading at a wedding?

Readings are a lovely way to share words that matter to you. There is no rule about who must speak. Many couples ask a parent, a sibling, a best friend or a cousin to read something short.

You might want a reader who knows the couple well, or someone whose voice or words carry special meaning. Some choose two readers so each partner has a voice. Others ask a child to read a simple line, with an adult on hand to help.

Think about who feels comfortable speaking in front of a group. A shy person can read a few lines, while a confident speaker can take a longer piece. You can also ask the registrar or celebrant for advice on what fits the ceremony.

For civil ceremonies in England and Wales, remember that religious content such as hymns, prayers or religious readings is not allowed. Poems, songs and non-religious readings are fine if the registrar agrees. Religious buildings and celebrants in Scotland or Northern Ireland may have different rules, so check with them.