What is it called when you get married but no wedding?

A register office marriage is the official term for getting married without a wedding celebration. You and your partner give notice at your local register office, then attend a short civil ceremony with two witnesses. The ceremony is legally binding and you receive a marriage certificate. You can keep it very simple, with no guests beyond your witnesses, or you can add a small meal afterwards if you like.

This option suits couples who want the legal status of marriage without the cost, time or fuss of a full wedding. You can still wear whatever you like, from jeans to a smart outfit. The registrar will guide you through the vows and the signing of the marriage schedule. You do not need to have any readings, music or decorations unless you want them.

If you later decide you want a celebration, you can hold a separate party or blessing at any time. Many couples do this a few months or years after the legal ceremony. The legal marriage is the important part, and the celebration can be as big or small as you wish.