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Do you tip your wedding planner?

Answered by the UK Wedding Websites editorial team · Updated 2026-10-12

Short answer

Tipping your wedding planner is optional, not expected, but a thoughtful gift or note is always welcome if they have done a good job. You should decide based on how happy you are with their service.

Most couples do not feel obliged to tip a wedding planner, but a small gesture of thanks is often appreciated. Many planners include their fees in the contract, so a tip is not part of the standard bill. If you have a budget, consider a gift card, a handwritten note, or a modest cash gift handed over privately at the end of the day.

Think about what they did for you. Did they calm your family nerves? Did they solve a last-minute problem with the weather or a supplier? If they went above and beyond, a thank you means a lot. Some couples give a gift for the whole team instead of one person.

If you are unsure, ask your planner in advance whether they accept tips. Some have a policy against it. A kind message and a positive review can be just as valuable as money.

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