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What are some good hen do themes?

Answered by the UK Wedding Websites editorial team · Updated 2026-10-12 · For the bridal party · For brides

Short answer

Good hen do themes include a colour party, a decades theme like the 90s, a pyjama or spa day, a murder mystery, or a favourite film or TV show theme. Choose one that suits the hen's personality and the activities you have planned.

The best hen do theme is one that the hen actually loves, so start by thinking about her hobbies, favourite films or music. A colour party is simple and photogenic: everyone wears the same colour, like pink or pastel, and it works for any venue. A decades theme, such as the 90s or the 70s, is fun for fancy dress and easy to source from charity shops. For a relaxed weekend, a pyjama or loungewear theme works well for a spa day or a night in with games and films. A murder mystery theme is great for a dinner party, with guests assigned characters and clues. You could also base the theme on a favourite TV show, film or musical, like a Bridgerton tea party or a Harry Potter quiz night. If the hen loves the outdoors, a festival or garden party theme with flower crowns and picnic blankets could be perfect. Whatever you choose, make sure it fits the budget and the venue, and give guests plenty of notice so they can sort outfits. The theme should add fun, not stress, so keep it flexible and let everyone join in at their own pace.

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