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Cash, gift cards and contributions to a honeymoon fund are the most popular choices, alongside kitchen appliances and home essentials. Couples often prefer money because it helps them start their life together.
Guests frequently choose practical items that a couple can use as they set up a home together. Many couples now list preferences on their wedding website, so check there first.
- Cash or a bank transfer
- Honeymoon or experience fund contribution
- Gift card to a shop they like
- Kitchen appliances like a kettle or toaster
- Cookware such as a frying pan or saucepan
- Bedding or towels
- A personalised keepsake
- A contribution toward a house deposit
- A voucher for a restaurant or day out
- A charity donation in the couple's name
If you cannot find a list, choose something useful from their home or think about what they might need. Some couples prefer experiences over physical items, so a voucher for a meal or a weekend break can be lovely. Keep the receipt if you buy something from a shop, but do not mention it to the couple.
If you are unsure, a thoughtful card with a contribution is always welcome.
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