What are some LGBT wedding bands and music ideas?

Short answer

Choose music that reflects your shared tastes and identity, whether that means hiring a band that openly supports same-sex weddings, building a playlist of favourite songs or inviting a DJ to read the room. Ask musicians about their experience with same-sex couples and their willingness to play inclusive lyrics.

Music sets the mood, so start by listing songs that mean something to you both. Think about the first dance, the party anthems and any cultural or family traditions you want to include. You can hire a live band, a DJ or a mix of both. When you contact musicians, ask whether they have played at same-sex weddings and whether they are comfortable with your chosen songs. Some songs contain lyrics that do not fit your story, so discuss alternatives early. Consider a song that celebrates love without gender, or a track that honours your heritage. If you want something unusual, ask about a string quartet for the ceremony or a saxophonist for the drinks reception. Make sure your music provider knows the order of events, such as speeches, cake cutting and any cultural dances. Share a playlist with your DJ or band in advance and mark the songs that are must-plays or do-not-plays. Check that they have the right equipment and insurance, and confirm their arrival time. If you are worried about any awkward moments, tell your music provider so they can help steer the evening. The goal is a dance floor full of people who feel included and happy.