What should you say or what blessings are said at a Jewish wedding?

The ceremony includes several blessings recited over a cup of wine. These thank God for creation, for the bond between man and woman, and for the joy of the couple. The couple then signs a marriage contract, known as a ketubah, which outlines the groom's responsibilities.

Guests listen quietly during the blessings and respond with Amen when appropriate. You do not need to recite any prayers yourself unless you are asked. After the ceremony, you may offer personal congratulations or a short wish in your own words.

At the reception, guests join in celebrations and may offer blessings or good wishes during meals. If you are unsure what to say, a simple 'Mazal tov' or congratulations is always welcome.

The exact prayers and their order depend on the community and the officiant. If you are attending a ceremony where you do not know the customs, follow the lead of those around you and speak quietly.