What is the haldi ceremony and how is it done?

Haldi is a traditional pre-wedding ritual in which a paste made from turmeric, oil and sometimes rose water is applied to the bride and groom. The paste is meant to bless the couple, cleanse the skin and give a glowing colour to the skin before the wedding. It is often done at home, in a garden or at a venue, and is attended by close family and friends. Both the bride and groom usually sit on decorated seats while elders sing songs and apply the paste. Sometimes the paste is applied by hand, and sometimes it is sprinkled lightly. The colour of the paste can stain clothes, so guests often wear white or light-coloured outfits. It is a fun and informal event, and people may playfully tease the couple. The ceremony is usually followed by a meal and more singing. It is not a legal part of the marriage. If you want your marriage to be legally recognised in England and Wales, you still need to complete the required ceremony at a register office, approved venue or registered place of worship. In Scotland and Northern Ireland the rules are different, so check with the registrar or your celebrant. Plan for easy-to-clean seating and provide wet wipes for guests. Ask the venue in advance about staining on furniture or carpets. Consider offering a private area for changing clothes after the ceremony.