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What are good examples of short wedding vows?

Answered by the UK Wedding Websites editorial team · Updated 2026-10-12

Short answer

Short wedding vows are personal promises you make to your partner, often two or three sentences long. They usually include a commitment, a feeling, and a promise for the future.

Good short vows focus on what matters most to you both. Start with a line about why you are here, such as "I choose you today and every day." Then name a feeling, like "You make me feel at home." Finish with a promise, for example "I will stand by you, laugh with you, and grow with you." Keep each vow under 30 seconds when spoken aloud. You can adapt traditional vows, like "I take you to be my partner, to have and to hold," but shorten them to what feels true. Avoid lists of chores or things you will do; instead, focus on your bond. If you want a religious tone, check with your officiant or place of worship, as rules can vary. For a civil ceremony in England and Wales, you can include non-religious readings and poems, but not hymns or prayers, unless the registrar agrees. Your vows are not legally binding, so you can write them freely, but the registrar will guide you on any required legal words.

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