How long were Jewish weddings in Jesus' time?

In the first century, a Jewish wedding was a series of events rather than one short service. It began with the betrothal, which was a legal agreement, followed later by the main ceremony and a celebration.

The feast itself often lasted several days. Some accounts suggest a week-long celebration for families who could afford it, while others may have been shorter. The length depended on the community, the families involved and how much they could host.

If you are planning a Jewish wedding in the UK today, the schedule will follow your rabbi and your community. Many couples now hold a ceremony and reception on the same day, while others spread events across a weekend. Ask your rabbi about the traditions you want to include.

For the legal side, remember that a Jewish ceremony is only legally binding in England and Wales if it takes place in a building registered for marriages with an authorised person present. Many couples hold a short civil ceremony separately to make sure everything is legal. Check GOV.UK or speak to your register office if you are unsure.