Wedding Dress Fittings and Alterations: What to Expect

Most brides need between two and three fittings, but this can vary depending on the dress and the amount of alteration work. A simple dress that fits well may only need one fitting, while a heavily beaded or layered gown might need three or more.

Your first fitting is usually the longest, often taking an hour or more. The seamstress will pin the dress to your shape and mark all the changes needed. The second fitting is a check on progress, and the final fitting is for the finished dress, often close to the wedding date.

If you are having a dress made from scratch or changing the neckline or sleeves, you may need extra fittings. Always ask your bridal shop or seamstress for their recommended number of fittings when you book.

Alterations can cover many things, from simple hemming to taking in or letting out the bodice, adjusting straps, adding bustles, or reshaping the waist. Common changes include shortening the hem, adjusting the length of sleeves, and making the dress fit more snugly around the bust or hips.

Some alterations are more complex, such as adding corset boning, changing a zipper to buttons, or adding a new lining. If you are changing the shape of the dress significantly, that may be considered a redesign rather than an alteration, and it will take longer.

Always discuss your planned underwear and shoes with your seamstress, because they affect how the dress fits. Bring the exact shoes and undergarments you plan to wear on the day to every fitting.

Most alterations take between four and eight weeks, but this depends on the complexity of the work and the seamstress's schedule. Simple hems and taking in seams can be done in a couple of weeks, while major changes might take longer.

Your first fitting should happen about eight weeks before the wedding, leaving time for the alterations and a final fitting. If you need more than two fittings, start earlier, around ten to twelve weeks before.

Do not leave alterations too late. If you book your first fitting only a month before the wedding, you may not have enough time for the work to be done properly. Always ask your seamstress for a timeline when you book.

Work backwards from your wedding date. Aim for your first fitting eight weeks before, the second fitting four to six weeks before, and the final fitting one to two weeks before the wedding. This gives you time for any last-minute tweaks.

If you are losing or gaining weight, or if you are having a dress made from scratch, start earlier. Your seamstress will advise you on the best schedule for your dress.

Remember that your body may change slightly in the weeks before the wedding, so the final fitting should be close to the date. Avoid scheduling the final fitting more than two weeks before, as your weight or posture may change.

Wear the underwear you plan to wear on the day, or something very similar. Bring your wedding shoes, and if you are having a veil or accessories, bring those too. This helps the seamstress see the full picture.

Wear minimal makeup, or at least avoid heavy foundation that could transfer onto the dress. It is fine to wear makeup, but be careful with the neckline and sleeves. Avoid wearing jewellery that could snag the fabric.

Eat a light meal before your fitting so you are not faint, but avoid a heavy meal that might make you feel bloated. Bring a list of any concerns you have, such as straps slipping or the hem catching on your shoes.

Bridesmaid dresses should be ordered early, usually six to eight months before the wedding, to allow time for delivery and alterations. If the bridesmaids are having their dresses altered, they should have their first fitting about six weeks before the wedding.

As a wedding guest, you should aim to buy your dress at least two to three months before the event, especially if you need alterations. This gives you time to find the right dress and have it adjusted without rushing.

Guest dresses often need simple alterations like hemming or taking in the waist, which can be done in a week or two. But if you are buying online or from a shop that does not offer alterations, allow extra time to find a seamstress.

Tipping at a wedding dress appointment is not expected in the UK. You are paying for the dress and the alterations, and there is no custom of tipping for fittings. If you are delighted with the service, a thank-you note or a small gift is a kind gesture, but it is not required.

Alteration costs vary widely depending on the seamstress, the dress, and the amount of work. You will usually pay for each fitting or for the total alteration package. Always ask for a written quote before the work begins, and check what is included.

Some bridal shops include alterations in the price of the dress, while others charge separately. If you are using an independent seamstress, ask about their pricing structure and whether they charge per fitting or per alteration.