What does the bride traditionally pay for?

The old UK tradition says the bride's family covers the bulk of the wedding: the venue, the catering, the drinks, the flowers, the stationery, and the bride's dress. The bride herself might pay for her accessories, hair and makeup, and sometimes the bridesmaids' dresses and gifts.

In practice, very few couples follow this exactly today. Many couples pay for everything themselves, or they mix contributions from both families. Some parents give a lump sum and let the couple decide how to spend it. Others prefer to pay for a specific thing, like the cake or the band, so they feel involved.

The kindest approach is to have an open conversation with both families early on. Ask if they would like to contribute, and if so, how much or what they would like to cover. Do not assume anyone will pay, and do not be upset if they cannot. Weddings are expensive, and no one owes you a celebration. What matters is that you start your marriage without debt or resentment.